The Second Arrow rings

The Second Arrow.

Inspired by the Buddhist teaching of the Two Arrows (Sallatha Sutta), these rings explore the difference between unavoidable pain and the suffering we sometimes add through our reactions.

The first arrow represents what happens to us without our choosing — loss, illness, rejection and other forms of pain. The second represents what we add afterwards: blame, rumination and self-criticism.

Cast in sterling silver, the two rings offer a deliberate contrast. One is smooth and direct; the other feathered, suggesting movement, complexity and another possible path.

Worn together, they're a reminder that while we can't always choose what happens to us, we can choose how we respond.